鼓盆之戚 [－－－－]

Jyutping gu2 pun4 zi1 cik1
Pinyin gǔ pén zhī qī

Definitions (CC-CEDICT)
  1. drumming on a bowl in grief (idiom, refers to Zhuangzi 莊子|庄子[Zhuang1 zi3] grieving for his lost wife)
  2. fig. grief for a lost wife