肉爛在鍋裡 [－烂－锅里]

Jyutping
Pinyin ròu làn zài guō lǐ

Definitions (CC-CEDICT)
  1. lit. the meat falls apart as it stews, but it all stays in the pot (idiom)
  2. fig. some of us may lose or gain, but in any case the benefits don't go to outsiders